That's just sad. I read one of the follow-up stories, and apparently his sister is blaming their dad for leaving the family to run off with a girl her age (He's 45, she's 21). That too is sad, but I don't think it's direct cause and effect. I think the cause of both things is the lack of understanding, something a 13 year old can't have without being taught, and something that if a 45 year old doesn't have by now, probably never will.